Sunday, December 11, 2011
Friends. What do we know about friends? Do you have any friends? Any friends at all? Seriously, I'm asking you whether or not you have a "real" friends.
Friends are not easy to find these days. Or probably, at my age, friends are just basically defined as someone that you can cling to go to lunch with everyday or someone that is in your class, sitting next to you and you call them as your friend. But for me, the term friends are more important than that. More precious. It just hurts me knowing that people taking me for granted as their friends. Being unappreciated to me for what I've done to them. I don't know what were they thinking.
What do feel if...
1. You're there with them whenever they're happy about something although you weren't part of the happiness together with them
2. You're there when they are in deep depression and sad moment because of their life problems and they find you to tell you about it
3. You're there when you see them alone and have no friends at the moment but you come into the picture to give them a company
4. You're there when they have problems in their study and you're the one who pushed them to keep on going and stay strong?
...But all you've got was ignorance. By your own good friends or friends or whatever. All I'm saying is that, people nowadays should be able to learn more about their own friends, because no matter how much hatred or ignorance you had towards these people you called friends, they're still, nevertheless, are you friends. The one who would stay with you at the end of the day.
Same goes to whoever reads this, don't be such a fool and judge your friends based on their CAR, appearance, money, or status. Love them just the way they are with their personality and honesty.
I wish you could realize how I was there for you no matter how high or low you have been that time and you never be with me when I'm at my highs and lows. We're adults, and to still be thinking about ditching our own friends are something acceptable is just sad for you. And because of that, I'm not going to be your true friend anymore, all I can give to you now is just my pity. Thanks for everything.
THIS IS NOT REFERRING TO ANYONE SO PLEASE DON'T BE FUCKING GUILTY ABOUT IT. SAYING THIS AS IN GENERAL. x
Posted by Fendi at 12:14 AM
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Posted by Fendi at 4:03 AM
Hi guys, I haven't been posting pictures these days haven't I? I really don't know whether I have the time to take any since the time that I had in university is so limited. Plus, bringing along my dslr back and forth from one place to another is so tiring. Sadly, that baby of mine's only functioning for my assignments. Take pictures for my works and shit. Gah I feel bad. For not taking pictures, as in for me, cause I want to go out and take pics like I used to before. And I haven't even go and develop my Praktika films, I just don't have the money for it to do it :( Sad.
On the other hand, during my last holiday back in Sabah, my youngest sister got engaged. So wonderful you know :) And of course I became the un-official and official photographer as I always have been and here are some of my favorite shots that day. Congratulations sis! x
Posted by Fendi at 3:43 AM
Friday, December 2, 2011
This pic was taken 0.029384923898 seconds ago when my roomies wasn't around. Both of them went back home so the room is all mine this weekend. Heh.
Just feel like to take some random pic and upload it in my blog. Tim Tam anyone? Got it from Cold Storage. Reminds me of my sister, Linda. Cause first thing was that she gave me this when I got home from KL during that last break I had in Sabah. Love you Lin. Suddenly I miss home :(
Don't mine the clustered-messy looking background. Boys room. What do you expect? :)
Posted by Fendi at 7:23 AM
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Please god, for once, I want to feel free to do anything I want even though if it's wrong. For once, I want to break free and live the life that a person at my age should be living. I love this quote saying,"If you don't do foolish things while you're young, you don't have anything to smile about when you're old" I feel like my life have missed off by some beats. I'm off track a bit cause I haven't been myself in this entire whole time. But I just couldn't be myself with the kind of environment I'm living in here, it is just all too serious and shit. Fuck.
Posted by Fendi at 6:12 AM
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
You know, sometimes I've asked myself this question repeatedly in different situations, "What if I just don't exist in this world, or at least, what if I just die? As in like, dead, hit by a lorry, or had a cancer, or a burglar shot me or committed suicide. What if I...pass away?"
Wouldn't that be easier for everyone else? For my parents, at least they would have one more person less to think about. For my friends, at least they would have one more person in their life they won't bother to care about. For my girlfriend, or ex- now, at least you wont suffer or I'm watching you suffering. Why would I do this to her? It's like unfair. For her. But it's for the best, so what am I suppose to say? What am I suppose to do? I'm doing this for our sake not for myself only. I'm not using you as a reason for me to break this off. In fact, you're too good for me to be my girlfriend. I salute you in so many ways, they way you see things, you study, you think, you think creatively. I adore you.
If one day I die which there is a possibility right, can you just send my apologise to my parents? Tell them, I'm the proudest son they could ever own to have them as my parents? Cause you know why? I don't wanna live anymore. Not if I see you dying out of depression.
I'm no Romeo. I'm just going through life. That's all. If you see that I'm dumping you, then you're wrong. I want us, just the way we are before. Like we used to be. I'm helping you more than you think I'm dumping you. I'm sorry. Sincerely sorry. I love you but I know, that would make me sounds like a jerk. But yeah, now I understand the meaning of regret. Thanks for everything.
Posted by Fendi at 8:29 AM
Monday, November 28, 2011
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Title: Self-Portrait I : Self Reflection
Medium: Pencil on paper
Medium: Pen on paper
Medium: Mized Media
Medium: Mixed Media
Medium: Oil on canvas
Hi guys, been a long time right. I have been caught up with so many shits and things that need to be done, so it was quite impossible to find time to sit and write my blog. I didn't realized that I'm actually towards the end of the first semester here. And time pass by pretty fast. Everything happens in nanoseconds.
Anyway, just so you know that I have been trying to make an appeal to get into Architecture. And I managed to make an appeal so hopes now everything will not end up all messed up. I already got two recommendation letters from my art lecturer and Pengarah Balai Seni Lukis, Pn Jennifer Linggi. Gosh, I dont know how repay their good deeds especially Mrs Jenn.
Oh and those artworks of mine, I did it for Young Talent Exhibition thats happening on January in Sabah Art Gallery I think. I took quite some times to finished all of it but overall I'm happy with how it turns out as a collection. I decided to do self-portraits of myself as a kick-start to my first art exhibition in my life. Although, I probably couldn't be there during the opening ceremony but I think I still can see the exhibition during my holiday on January. Hope so. I'm homesick. x
Posted by Fendi at 7:43 PM
Monday, November 7, 2011
This is my happy face when I'm in the studio!
Is it me or my room at home is full of ants, ants are everywhere, it keeps on coming, crawling up to my legs. fuck this shit. Ok random.
Hi guys, it's been like a few days now since I'm back home in Sabah for our mid-sem break. So far, my day couldn't get any better when I'm around with my family. They made me smile in whatever things they're doing.
And now is the third day I'm here, I think, and it's almost midnight, and I'm thinking a lot of things during midnight when I can't go to sleep. And one of them is about my study.
Let me specifically explain to you guys why exactly am I not happy in what I'm doing now. I gave myself a descent few weeks to grow my interest in what I'm doing now. It's failing. I started to force myself to like this course after my duration of giving this course a chance had passed. It's failing. The lecturers are killing me, they called themselves as USA's grads and use the USA's ways of teaching but they got all mixed up between the local ways of teaching with the thinking of the Western people. And they ended up being so strict, that they're not even sure in what they're doing to us. It's failing. Nothing I did before was something that I expected like getting those straight A's in studio until I knew I have it at the back of my hand, I started to down grade again. Fuck!
To add my misery, the Architecture studio is just next door. I have no problem with the students, they're great. It's just that, almost most of the time when I wanna go to MY studio and passed by their studio, it's so heart-broking knowing that I'm not using their studio. I, surprisingly, still wants to be in Architecture. Of all this minutes, hours, days, weeks of studying in my course, still don't give me anything. Although they said, my course and Architecture would have some resemblance but FUCK, nothing similar between these course.
Yes I'm writing an essay, so fuck off If you don't wanna read it.
And now, I'm thinking to change university. Yes, drastic measurement. I can't think up of anything else, I might just kill the risk by going for a shot in a new place. But it still in the midst of air though, don't jump off the conclusion. I haven't decide. What I'm sure now is, I wanna be in Architecture. And it kills me already to be in UM and can only see my friends do their assignments when I can do so much better. No offense.
My heart isn't for this planning course. AT ALL. NO KIDDING. I'm so depress that I've reached that limit where I think, I would be happier if I dont pursue my degree now. But yeah, that's crazy. All I'm saying is, I. Dont. Want. To. Be. In. Planning.
Posted by Fendi at 7:43 AM
Friday, November 4, 2011
Ac and Hana in our studio :D
Oh god, I don't know how to express my feelings now. I am just too happy to even write about how I feel at this moment.Let me take a moment. Okay. Because, finally mid-sem break's here. And I'm going back to Sabah, as in my home! Oh yes, that blissfulness and glee circulating my head is as if it's surreal. As if like i can see those tiny little happy debris playing around my eyes and I'm enjoying seeing it now. I'm getting tied up with university works and assignments, those mundane and lame activities I've participated are sickening my head. So, now, one week. No stress. No nothing. Just me, my family and most importantly my room and my bed. AND OH YES, BE JEALOUS BITCHES! NOT TO MENTION HOME-COOK FOOD TOO!!! And I want to meet Faw, oh I miss you!
As you know, I've changed my blog url. It's a backward spelling of FFFFENDI so mind you of it's complication to get in my blog okay. And I changed it due to some privacy reasons. Adios.
Friday, October 21, 2011
Hello, let me introduce ya'll to my new baby on board! I bought a seconhand-ed Praktica super TL from a friend of mine. I'm not sure why exactly I decided on buying a film camera but I feel that, I've tried on Digital SLR and a lomo cam, why not to try a new thing like a film camera. I've seen the pictures this baby can produced and it's pretty cool in my taste. I'm on my first roll of film now, so I'm so excited how the result would be after I finished it :D
Posted by Fendi at 3:09 PM
We are the TnTee :D
And this is Nancy, I uploaded this pic cause it's so nice :D
Anyways, part of my time recently has been totally occupied by lots of activities. Exclusive of some from my studio assignments and classes, I've been part of the TnTee group of all this while. The idea behind this company basically just selling shirts and I became one of the designers. I mean, how awesome can it be if you see people around you are wearing the shirts that you've designed, that feeling of pleasure and satisfaction just filled your body entirely with it.
And the selling went great, we were on sales during FESKUM (Festival Konvokesyen Universiti Malaya) and that was our first official shirt selling experience. All I can ever say is, we're learning from scratch so, things would be better next time in terms of the management. In terms of the selling, we did great on that :)
Posted by Fendi at 2:51 PM
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Posted by Fendi at 8:46 PM
Hi, life's been such a fuss lately. I haven't been blogging since Raya season about a month ago, that's sure a long time to count right. Not that I don't want to squeeze in any free time to blog but I just don't have any. So far, the new college I'm staying is considerably okay, I don't want to complain. I have two roomates now, they're also okay, I don't want to complain. Nothing much to write about.
And my new course, Urban and Regional Planning is also okay. Still have to go through some hardcore designing process so I'm not entirely in an utter boredom learning that course so far.
I want to get out and take pictures. I'm just too stressed out with everything right now. I'm too busy with my college activities, my studio assignments just can never learn how to stop torturing me. Being a Degree student isn't that easy compared to be a pre-Uni student. You need to be active in all sorts of association in order to keep yourself active and be able to stay in the same college for the next semester. And my study haven't started that much yet, which sucks alot. Cause I want to study, for now, as long as this motivation to do so still kicks in but when I start to run out my motivation juice, I'm doomed.
I. JUST. WANT. TO. FEEL. FREE. AND. TAKE. LOTSA. PICTURES :(
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Look what a dawn artificial light shadows from outside of my house could offer you. A magical,impossible image
Knowing that Bon Iver and St. Iver's song instrumenting through my ear tubes, legs spread out like a pregnant woman in labor, and everytime I sweats, it feels like a drop of ocean waves running down my face, I just knew that this dreamy graceful imagery I'm having is just earthly, terrestrial moving thing I could only have in vague and uncertain time in my life. Wish it wouldn't stop, I wish it could have an unforeseeable long journey that can out-stretched this ever growing imagination, only rapidly emergent more, refuse to when it would stop. I just wished that sometimes...the good times would never end, the happily-ever-after day couldn't see an unsettling departure, but life happens.
Posted by Fendi at 11:16 AM
Friday, August 26, 2011
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Posted by Fendi at 3:46 PM
one,two, ... *snapped* three. after the show, happy nonetheless exhausted
my first attend of a theater show titled "Short Eyes"
Zahiril Adzim (If you don't know him, google him)
As I am trying to catch a sleep, I ran across these pictures in one of my random picture folders, it instantly splashed me an absolute fresh memory on that happy night we (Me Ac Amal Oney) all had that day. Amal brought us by her car to the Actor's Studio in Pavilion KL building, if I'm not mistaken and the building on the roof-top was breath-taking that I need minutes to indulge the sceneric moment (as usual of my in-awe moment). And then, she droved us all the way to Danau Kota to go for a late night look-around in Uptown markets. It was a blast :)
Posted by Fendi at 3:20 PM